Where did you both live when you were younger?
Val: I lived in Barraba.
Don: Gravesend which is between Moree and Inverell.
When and where did you first meet? How did your relationship develop?
Val: In Sydney, in about 1951
Don: Yep, that’s right
Val: We played tennis together
Don: Yep, we played a lot of tennis!
Val: And Don, you had a motorbike, and I rode on the back of the motorbike
Don: She did
Val: I worked in a woollen mill during the day, but I also worked in a café at night and I first met Don because he would come and have his tea there every night.
Don, what did you have for tea?
Don: Oh you know, the same sort of things that most people got, steak and three veg and what have you. I went there every night to see her.
When did you get married
Val: In September 1952, 20th of September 1952
Describe your wedding day
Don: It was at night time.
Val: It was at night time because Don played tennis in the afternoon. We had a church ceremony, Wesley Chapel in Castlereagh St in Sydney, and then we had a reception in a Hall at Enmore where we lived. I suppose there might have been 50 people there.
Don: Val's parents came, and some others from her family. My father died when he was about 50, so he wasn’t there.
Val, what was your dress like?
Val: White satin, a little bit of lace at the neck, Very simple, classical dress.
And Don’s suit?
Don: A Black suit. Again very traditional.
Where did you have your honeymoon? Was there any particular reason?
Don: The Blue Mountains, and from there, we went on to visit Val’s family
Val: There was no particular reason. We just thought it would be nice.
Did you have any children?
Val: We have three children. Robert who is an accountant, Brian who worked as a union official, and Janelle who is a school teacher.
Do you have any grandchildren?
Val: We have 4 grandchildren, and 2 adopted grandchildren. We have Steven and Jacqueline from Robert’s family, we have Ben and Dan from Janelle’s family, and Brian’s partner Jane has two daughters Angie and Lucy.
Any great grandchildren?
Val: Yes we have 4 – Cooper and Jessica who are Steven’s children, and Lara who is Jacqueline’s daughter, and she also has a step-daughter, Alex.
What has been your biggest achievement as a couple?
Val: I would have to say our family.
What are some of the challenges you have faced in your marriage?
Val: One of our sons was born with a twisted foot, but other than that no terribly difficult things so far. We are very lucky.
Don: Val's mother used to say to me “You’ll look after her, won’t you?” and I would say to her “oh, she’ll be right”. (laughter)
Do you have any tips on how to overcome any challenges that arise or how to have such a great married life?
Val: I think it's important to be with your family a lot, spend a lot of time with them.
Don: Yes, I agree.
What would you say to anyone wanting to have a long and happy marriage like yours?
Val: Learn to accept things as they come, don’t get upset over small things. Cherish each other.
